I know from those of you I’ve spoken with over the last few years, 75 Love was a much needed discovery. In a time when so many women are looking for a way to do life that is more in alignment with our bodies, with our feminine energy and in a way that feels sustainable, 75 Love feels like a breath of fresh air amidst the masculine energy that has so often paved the way.
This will be my 3rd year doing 75 Love but I’ve lost count of the number of times because with each journey I learn a little more. I do it a little differently. I find the struggle or resistance in new areas I get to clear, heal and make new. And it works, every single time.
I’ll be posting something soon sharing how to look back at this year to see your wins, celebrate all your moments, release the pain & losses and look forward to the future. Something I know that I struggle with if I don’t ask the right questions so I can actually see the good in the year. Sign up for the newsletter here to know when that drops.
But for now, let’s talk about the things I think you need to know before starting this journey and why even if it doesn’t seem like it’s working, it’s working. Trust me.
It’s not the results. It’s the journey
When I did 75 Love at the beginning of 2024, I did it with 2 things in mind: I wanted to manifest my soulmate this year and I wanted to heal my relationship with food. I did both successfully but also not quite in the way I expected.
In my mind, success or achieving the goal here looked like finally attracting my dream partner and losing weight with ease. Both of which we will talk about more in a second.
However what I didn’t realize or didn’t know that I would even need to know is that first I needed to build my soulmate relationship with myself. I needed to be able to truly see all of me and love me. We’ve all seen it or done it. That anxious needy attachment in relationship where you want something but they aren’t giving it to you. Where you don’t think they love you enough, or you don’t feel like you’re enough or what you thought would go away in this relationship really hasn’t gone away. And the pain is still there.
We know it. But we have to face it to change it. And truthfully no one can do the feeling and the processing but us. We have to be able to look at our sh*t and be okay with it. To give ourselves the love maybe we didn’t get or couldn’t figure out how to accept as a child.
And that transformative relationship helps us achieve the life of our wildest dreams. But becoming my own soulmate so I could attract my soulmate was an unexpected part of the journey.
This is not about a checklist
I’ll share more on this in the pre-work but the reason I do 75 Love a bit differently every time is because the essence of it needs to be applied depending on what you’re working through. For the last round, I had 30-minute daily quiet walks which I think will be adjusting to finding 30 minutes of daily quiet.
And some of you may feel called to combine your 30 minutes of silence with a walk every day. Or maybe it will be that you choose to combine it with some other outdoor activity (something new to this round).
For me, I’ll be using a portion of that time as a quiet meditation for what I know I’ll be processing this round as I help myself release the emotional weight that has turned into physical weight. I’ll be processing everything that I’m carrying that has kept me from the body it feels like was written in my soul contract. The one I’ve seen in my mind’s eye for years.
The one I’m ready to call into this timeline.
You really truly can’t do this wrong. If you’re willing to show up, face your demons, and try again & again & again, you are doing 75 Love right. Presence over perfection. Always.
Doing This With Me
I’ve launched new tiers on Patreon as of today for this next round of 75 Love. There’s a price transparency post available along with new things I’m creating like the How To Break Out Of Patterns That Have Held You For A Lifetime ebook. There will also be a PDF guide that you can purchase for download that includes the daily journal prompts plus space to write, affirmations and other tips so you can print or duplicate it in Goodnotes whenever you feel led to do 75 Love.
I’ll be doing weekly vlogs exclusive to the 75 Love Patreon page that show you how to make this work for you and how to make this a lifestyle change not just a temporary one.
But more than anything I’ll be holding space with you for the kind of life transformation so many of us have been craving, seeking, and desire because it does exist and you are smart enough to figure it out.
My Goals For 75 Love This Time
In the past few years, I’ve transformed my financial relationship, have released friendships that were toxic to my growth, watched the humans around me transform their lives & minds, healed so much sh*t it’s insane, turned my intuition up to 11, leveled up my energetic standards and set new boundaries that keep the bs out of my life.
I’ve changed so much internally that I’m ready to see it in new bigger ways. My goals for 75 Love but also 2025 – manifesting soulmate love and bringing my dream body into this reality.
But I have no intention of dragging myself through the mud or suffering needlessly. I have zero desire to put limitations on myself or to punish my body to a point of unsustainable living. I will continue to do this as a means of love and transforming my life with a loving energy. Raising my vibration so to speak and letting in more joy.
I think we all know what it looks like to be miserable in our lives and I have zero intention of creating more misery.
If you’d like to join me, I’d love to have you. We officially start Jan 1 but I’d highly suggest hoping on the pre-work asap to get you prepped for a new year. I can’t wait to dive into this next chapter and round of 75 Love with you. Until next time. Xoxo, Savvy
